He talked to Brian today. Brian did not get in trouble like all of you naysayers thought. Here is the email I got back:
firstly, i will not e-mail you without letting your husband know,I just found it odd that your husband didnt have any college and i wasnt trying to force him to do anything. i did think it would set a good example for his soldiers and it seems hard to tell soldiers to do things that you have done. I have college and it actually didnt take very long once i applied myself. I to, cannot take classes online and since weve have been deployed I felt that most people have have time to take a course.It wasnt my intent to upset him only to nudge him to better himself and to set a good example to his soldiers ( not that he isnt already).
once again i would like to say thanks for what you do and that my intent was not to get things stired up up .
thanks for your time,
He he I win!